My loved one has been diagnosed with dementia. What do I need to be aware of?

Posted: November 2, 2016, 1:36PM

When a loved one is diagnosed with dementia there are several things to consider.

You need to learn about the disease. What can you expect? We know that memory loss is a hallmark characteristic of many illnesses that cause dementia. What other issues might arise?
Learn about resources. Where can you find in home assistance? Is there a support group near you? What are your options for assistance?
Know your loved one. What are their life long loves? What are siblings' names? Parents' names? Pets' names? Where did they live as a child? What are favorite foods? Knowing more about your loved one helps with caregiving.
Driving is a big concern for many caregivers. Care receivers with dementia may get lost, be unable to follow directional signs, get confused in construction areas, forget how to use the pedals and regulate speed.
The living situation needs to be evaluated. Is it safe? Can you loved one live alone or do you need to consider in home assistance, assisted living or nursing home care? Did you know that Medicare does not cover in home assistance (other than skilled services such as physical therapy, occupational therapy and/or nursing care which is short term and intermittent), assisted living or nursing home care (other than skilled care which is a short term coverage stay).
Advance directives need to be considered while your loved one still has the capacity to make decisions. Do they have a Medical Power of Attorney designated? Is there a Living Will? Does your loved one have a Durable Power of Attorney designating someone to make business / every day decisions?
Finances can be problematic. Can they manage their money? You need to evaluate their ability to handle finances, and make arrangements for when they are unable to do so. Those with dementia will most likely lose the ability to manage their finances. Do you need help? It may be wise to seek the advice of an elder law attorney. Elder law attorneys specialize in matters that impact seniors such as planning for Medicaid coverage in nursing homes, how to manage assets legally, and what can and cannot be done in planning for long term care.

Do not hesitate to contact us with questions. We have print resources and can also guide you to services, supportive organizations and on line resources.